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BDSM – What is that actually?

BDSM stands for bondage & disciplining, dominance & submission and sadism & masochism. So the term BDSM covers different practices and varieties. Also different fetishes like lacquer, leather and latex find appeal in this area. With bondage, of course, the focus is on bondage. With dominance and submission it is about domination and dominating the partner. And in sadomasochism about inflicting and feeling pain.

In BDSM play there is always an active and a passive part. This distribution of roles is determined before each game. You can find out which of the models from our Escort Service is devoted to this type of game and in which role, under “Service of the Models“. The passive part (also called “Bottom”) takes the role of being beaten or humiliated while being tied up. Of course, the bottom can stop the game at any time with a previously determined safeword. The active part is called “Top”. And The Top is the one who ties up, punishes, beats or playfully tortures the passive person.

The history of BDSM

In mainstream culture, bondage, discipline, dominance, submission and sadomasochism are often depicted as ruthless, dangerous and unhealthy. Take for example the film “Fifty Shades of Grey”. Christian Grey’s reasons to enjoy these unusual varieties of games stem from his childhood abuse. In other films fetishists are often portrayed as shady, unethical lawbreakers.

According to a survey in 2013, involvement in fetishism and sadomasochism was indeed considered a mental disorder by most doctors. In the meantime, however, the attitude towards these “perverse games” has changed. Pop culture has not made fetishism the latest fad. People have always had a penchant for adventurous sex. A survey in 2005 showed that 36% of adults admitted to using some form of bondage during lovemaking. So we no longer have adventurous sex, we just talk about it more.

Bondage

Bondage describes all activities in which the partner is tied up or otherwise hindered in his or her freedom of movement. Mostly ropes and handcuffs are used for this purpose. But sometimes also leather straps, chains, adhesive tape or frames that can be screwed together. For the bottom line, the gain in pleasure lies in being “at the mercy”. In your own helplessness. For the top, the gain in pleasure lies in the apparent power over the tied up person.

How do I tie up without really hurting? Bondage follows clear rules. This applies not only to various role-playing variations. Especially when certain techniques and tools are used, it is important to approach the game sensibly and with concentration. Especially when cane, ice, fire and other things are added to the game. If you are not prepared, it can quickly become dangerous for you.

Discipline

For many also in the common meaning Bondage/Discipline. Bondage and educational games can of course be wonderfully combined. In contrast to the other pairs of terms, this term is not used to indicate the roles within a game. This type of game is primarily about rules and control. The active part sets up rules and controls that the bottom keeps to them. A rule that is not followed can serve as a reason for a penalty. In rare cases, a rule that is followed can also be the reason for a reward. Here too there is a safe word. By the way: All our escort models have indicated role plays in their preferences. If you would like such a scenario with one of our ladies, please contact us by mail or phone.

Dominance & Submission

You will also find information about Dominant and Submissive in the profiles of all our Escort Ladies. In this game the submissive part submits to the active and dominant part. How far submission and domination go is of course again determined in detail in advance. Many sessions in this area are naturally limited in time. But many also take over the game in their everyday life. The minimum booking with our Escort Service for this type of game is decided individually in a personal telephone call.

Sadism & Masochism

Sadism/Masochism (S/M) is one of the most common areas of public concern. Behind it is the sensual feeling and preparation of pain. The practices here are very different: from hitting with the hand or various instruments to playing with hot wax. Professionals also like to play with needles. Of course, here too, care is taken to ensure that the limits of all those involved are respected and that no permanent damage to health is caused. S/M can also be an exciting part of a role play.